NEW YORK IS CLOSE TO PASSING MEDICAL AID IN DYING BILL…FINALLY!
Read Vaughn Golden’s New York Post article HERE.
NY lawmakers back controversial assisted suicide bill as state legislature wrangles with Hochul over budget
ALBANY — New York state lawmakers are getting behind a proposal to legalize assisted suicide, The Post has learned.
Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie (D-Bronx) told lawmakers during a meeting behind closed doors Tuesday that the bill – which proponents call medical aid in dying – has the votes to pass, according to a source with knowledge of the discussion.
The meeting about the controversial measure — which several sources said could be brought for a vote as soon as next week — came as the Legislature and Gov. Kathy Hochul continue to hammer out a deal over the state budget, which was due April 1.
Lawmakers in Albany are getting behind a bill that would legalized assisted suicide, sources tell The Post.
Heastie has previously said he supports the bill, but it’s never been brought up on the Assembly floor, a sign it didn’t have the votes to pass.
Supporters of the measure claimed it also has enough support in the state Senate.
“Everyone should have the right to choose for themselves,” state Sen. Brad Hoylman-Sigal, a backer of the bill, told The Post Tuesday.
Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie reportedly told lawmakers that the bill has enough votes to pass.James Messerschmidt
“If they are of sound mind and want to end unbearable suffering with no prospects of recovery, they should be able to choose the way they die.”
Corinne Carey, local senior director of Compassion & Choices, one of the groups pushing for the measure, said it was part of a campaign to “ensure terminally ill New Yorkers have access to a full range of end of life options.”
Filmmaker, Serene Meshel-Dillman, in conversation with Lisa Keefauver on Lisa’s podcast: “GRIEF IS A SNEAKY BITCH”
Click HERE to listen to “Grief Is A Sneaky Bitch”, an in depth conversation with filmmaker, Serene Meshel-Dillman about her documentary series, TAKE ME OUT FEET FIRST and medical aid in dying.
Highlights included are:
The importance of agency in end-of-life decisions.
Many people do not use medical aid in dying despite having the option.
Personal stories can drive advocacy for change.
Conversations about death should be normalized.
Quality of life is paramount in end-of-life care.
Legislation is evolving, and advocacy is crucial.
Link to YouTube HERE
“Until I Come Back For You” Trisha White’s Debut Novel Is Out Now
Trisha White (P.A. White), the co-star of Take Me Out Feet First, Season One’s Episode 5 has debuted her first novel, “Until I Come Back For You”.
It’s been about 1 1/2 years but Trisha texted me this week that I am finally allowed to post about the book’s release.
I had the pleasure of being asked to read an advance copy in August of 2023 and here is my text to her after bingeing it in one day…
“…I love your writing style. Easy to read and great sense of humor. I can just picture all of the characters. Makes me feel like I know everyone….”
We arranged for a Zoom call soon after so I could ask questions about the characters, the story and who from her family might be represented. My biggest question of course was “what parts are true?”
You’ll have to read the book and then perhaps you can get her to stop by your local book store (she’s on tour) for a reading and ask your own questions.
I highly recommend the ride. It’s a doozy.
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Until I Come Back For You
Young Trisha
THE HEART OF HOSPICE PODCAST
Filmmaker Serene Meshel-Dillman Focuses on End of Life Options in a new Documentary Series
You’ve Only Got One Death to Live
Serene Meshel-Dillman Turned a Doc Series About Dying Into a Streaming Sensation
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OUR DOGS A story by Dr. John McGeehan, Professor of Clinical Medicine Core Faculty, Center for Humanism
Our Dogs
Growing up I never had a dog. My wife always did. I never wanted one. As with most things in a good marriage we arrived at a compromise and got our first dog as a puppy a number of years into our marriage – after our three children were old enough. She was a golden retriever. She was smart and happy and playful and a bit mischievous. Autumn quickly became a part of our family and changed our lives for the better. At age 10 she suddenly fell over without any prior warning. We took her to the Vet who told us to take her to a teaching hospital and I was shocked when I faced the reality of what we would do for a dog. Autumn had become more than a dog to us over those ten years. At the hospital we learned she had a cancer of her heart which had bled suddenly. We were given options and told what might happen. The options were not good and they recommended we take her home and make her comfortable. We decided to create a “doggy hospice” for her! She was now allowed in the pool. She could eat ice cream and all kinds of “people food”. She was happy and was not suffering.
After a few weeks she was acting normally. We knew that did not change the fact that she had a cancer and we took every day as a gift. We got another puppy – Madison - a golden retriever and with her new friend she became even more energetic and they played daily. One day, six months later, while in the yard Autumn fell over again and died. For many weeks Madison would sit exactly where she died and look around for long periods of time. There is so much we do not know. We all missed Autumn. Doggie hospice was a brilliant idea.
Madison enriched our lives for many years and eventually died as well. We were both working and very busy but agreed that there was a void in our lives worsened by the departure of children to college. My wife came up with the brilliant idea of adopting an adult golden retriever and found one not far from our home who was used as a breeder dog. We went to meet her and out of many happy dogs and puppies at this wonderful home in the country Sierra came right to us and jumped up on my wife. Love at first sight in all directions and she was soon in the car heading home. She was amazing - seventy pounds of pure love. She never barked and never begged and followed us everywhere even without needing a leash.
At age 13 she suddenly became weak and we knew immediately what was wrong. It was a horrible déjà vu. She could not walk and was breathing heavy. The Vet took blood from her heart sack and confirmed that she had the same heart tumor. This is apparently not unusual in this breed. She improved dramatically but days later it happened again. She did not die as had Autumn but was clearly suffering. She looked at us with such sadness. We knew what the right thing to do was for someone we loved.
The staff at the Vet knew her and they greeted us at the door. I carried her in and the seventy pounds proved not an issue with emotions fueling adrenaline. We put her on the floor and got down on the floor next to her. The Vet was nothing short of amazing and spent more time comforting us than I ever expected. Sierra kept her eyes focused on us and did not move. We both pet her as an IV was started and she did not flinch. Perhaps we read into what a dog thinks but after years one gets to know their pet and it was clear she was not anxious and knew we were there for her. The medication was administered and she closed her eyes and shortly after stopped breathing. It was so beautiful. It was so comfortable for her. It was so sad for us. It was so right. She was a special dog and is missed every day. She left this world without pain and surrounded by those she loved.
I have been a primary care physician for decades and have seen many people die. I have lost parents and one in Hospice. I know first-hand that we cannot relieve all suffering even with the advances in palliative care. I know that those dying do not want to be alone and they do not want to suffer. In only a few states in this country do we allow the dying to have the option of assisted suicide. The current expressed concerns will eventually give way to the fact that the dying deserve better. When my time comes I would hope to leave this world as did Sierra – with my dignity, without suffering, and surrounded by those I love.
Dr. John McGeehan being interviewed for season 2 of Take Me Out Feet First
Arizona End of Life Options by Mark Savan
In last month’s newsletter I wrote about the increasing visibility of the Medical Aid in Dying (MAID) movement in mainstream media. Another example of this trend is a program titled “Take Me Out Feet First” – a six-part series that is directed by a woman whose parents both separately chose MAID.
The series provides an intimate look into the lives and deaths of several people who have chosen to pursue MAID. It can be purchased or rented by clicking here and is also currently available on Amazon Prime Video.
For me, the first episode was particularly powerful. It follows a husband and wife as they (at separate times) utilized MAID. It is hard for me to image a more intimate view into this process than is provided in this 90-minute program. The viewer is along for the entire MAID process—including the consulting physician video call, last goodbyes with friends and family, and the actual moment of death. This is a very graphic and very powerful program.
I’ve been watching this series at the same time as one of our fantastic AZELO supporters—Jean Owen from Prescott. I asked Jean to provide her thoughts on the series:
Click here to read entire article.
Join me and Kim Callinan, for a webinar discussion about TAKE ME OUT FEET FIRST Monday July 29th 12:00 - 1:00 PM PT
In the first of our National Summer Arts & Culture Series webinars, Kim Callinan and Filmmaker Serene Meshel-Dillman will have a dialogue about Serene's 2024 documentary Take Me Out Feet First, which chronicles the journey of 25 terminally ill individuals and their loved ones as they confront sensitive and complex end-of-life decisions.
Sign up HERE.
Glowing Older Episode 19:1 Serene Meshel-Dillman on her docu-series Take Me Out Feet First
A conversation with Nancy Griffin from “Glowing Older” podcast about the genesis of my documentary series “Take Me Out Feet First”. Listen here.
MAID to become legal in 12th state of Delaware
On June 25th, Delaware’s Senate passed the Ron Silverio/Heather Block End of Life Options Act. Governor John Carney’s signature on the bill will/would make Delaware the 12th U.S. jurisdiction to authorize medical aid in dying. GO DELAWARE!!! As Jimmy Buffet said before he passed last year….”No funeral, no memorial, just keep the party going”.
PEOPLE.COM
Filmmaker's Parents Choose Medical Aid in Dying, End Their Lives in Emotional Docuseries: Editing 'Was Hell' (Exclusive)
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End Of Life Options New Mexico “A New Series About End of Life on Amazon Prime”
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Director, Serene Meshel-Dillman in Episode 23 of the Death With Dignity Podcast with Andrew Flack
Click HERE to listen to Episode 23 of the Death With Dignity Podcast with Andrew Flack.
The University of Vermont Alumni Spotlight: Serene Meshel-Dillman ‘85
Written by Lisa Wartenberg Velez
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Andrew Flack’s mother, Suzy, continues his legacy advocating for medical aid in dying in Illinois as legislature considers law
Andrew’s mom, Suzy Flack co-wrote a Chicago Tribune OpEd with Nilsa Centeno, another mother whose son, Miguelito, died of cancer. They are advocating for upcoming medical aid in dying legislation in Illinois. A law neither of their sons was able to access. Miguelito suffered at the end of his life. He recorded videos in English and Spanish to urge fellow Latinos to support future MAID legislation. Conversely, rather than return to Illinois to be with his family, Andrew stayed in California to access the End of Life Option Act. His family flew to him months before he chose to end his suffering. They were able to spend quality time together and surround him with their love as he passed.
You can read their article here. (Sorry, it’s behind a paywall)
Illinois End of Life Options for Terminally Ill Patients Act
Ginger Fairchild (Matt’s widow) pens an opinion article for CNN
Ginger Fairchild pens an opinion article for CNN about medical aid in dying.
Opinion: Medical aiding dying was a blessing for my husband. But a federal law makes it inaccessible for millions of Americans.
Click here to watch her video and read the article.